When I was growing up we were a family that attended church every time the doors were open. We basically grew up in church...which I think is great...I love my Christian heritage and I am happy that my parents found it important to attend church. When I was little Sunday dinner was always at my grandparents farm and of course it was fried chicken! Meals are an important thing in my familiy! Almost everytime we get together it is centered around eating....whether it is a holiday or a picnic on the farm...there will be a guaranteed amount of delicious food!
When I think about these meals...more happens than just eating. Something magical happens called fellowship with one another. We laugh, talk, and build relationships with one another!
So after I thought about this topic a little more I went back a few years...when I was growing up in church they were always having those famous church potlucks, or people were always inviting people into their home for Sunday dinner, or getting together after church.
When I think about these meals...more happens than just eating. Something magical happens called fellowship with one another. We laugh, talk, and build relationships with one another!
I encourage you to read the link...it is one of his blog posts about this amazing quote!
The quote hit me big time because I feel like something as simple as eating meals with people and sharing in that fellowship doesn't happen anymore. I have been around the church a long time but often we are hearing more about numbers, projects, and events. They want to grow the church and win new Christians to the Lord...so what new thing can we do to bring these people in...and lets make it flashy to attract them.
But I believe that sometimes the church needs to get back to the basics and maybe just eat some meals. I bet if we started inviting more people over for Sunday dinner over a home cooked meal we would start to see a rise in friendships being built within the church and also with new people coming into the church.
If you remember Jesus wasn't pushy with people...I remember the bible story of Jesus eating with the tax collectors and sinners...He came to their level over a meal and built a friendship. He sat and took time to talk with them or go into their home.
"But what happens when you eat together? We share food as friends. We sit at the same level around the table. Then we can talk about our shared need of God’s grace. We love to run projects, but nobody wants to be someone’s ‘project’. They want friendship."-Tim Chester
I know this isn't for everyone but I think it is something to think about in life and in our churches. Even outside of church who can we be eating meals with to build that friendship...so that maybe one day they will come to know Jesus?
So I challenge you to find someone to eat a meal with.